Nearly each time I share the most recent proposed flooring plan of our bed room suite and addition currently, I’ve no less than one individual ask, “However the place will you retailer Matt’s Hoyer raise and wheelchairs?” That query wasn’t solely coming from others. It was additionally in my thoughts as effectively. As a lot as I liked this new plan that we got here up with for turning the three unique bedrooms of the home into one bed room suite after which including on a a lot smaller addition than the one we had initially deliberate years in the past, the one sticking level has at all times been that I don’t have a devoted storage space for these gadgets that Matt requires.
Right here’s the most recent flooring plan that I shared, and the one which I’ve been working in direction of since I shared it

Again in December (or it could have even been November), I met with an architect who I do know from church as a result of I needed him to attract up the official paperwork that we have to undergo town for our addition. I instructed him that I’ve the fundamental flooring plan of our home, together with the entire measurements, so he doesn’t want to start out from scratch. So when he left, I instructed him that I’d ship him that information and he may go from there.
Effectively, it’s February, and I nonetheless haven’t despatched him something as a result of one thing about our plan simply wasn’t sitting proper with me. So after I noticed him at church a couple of weeks in the past, I mentioned, “I haven’t forgotten! I’m simply making an attempt to work out some particulars.” He assured me that he wasn’t in any hurry and can be prepared when I’m. So I type of put it out of my thoughts for a couple of weeks.
And the half that wasn’t sitting with me was making an attempt to squeeze two bedrooms and a front room right into a smaller addition, plus winding up with no devoted space for storing for Matt’s gadgets. I really like my husband dearly, however I don’t like having his stuff (bathe wheelchair and common wheelchair when he’s not utilizing it) in and out the best way the place I’m continuously having to stroll round it or stumble upon it after I’m half asleep at night time making an attempt to make my option to the toilet.
In my thoughts, I used to be pondering I may carve out some house in our future house gymnasium for these gadgets. It wasn’t a perfect plan, nevertheless it was the one plan I may give you with out including much more room to the longer term addition. And whereas it could be good to simply construct an enormous addition with room for every thing my little coronary heart wishes, it’s simply not sensible. I actually need to preserve that addition to 16 toes (versus the 27 toes our unique plan would have required). That’s a distinction of just about 500 sq. toes, which makes an enormous distinction within the remaining value.
Even on the ground plan on the high of this submit, you’ll be able to see that I compromised on that 16-foot restrict that I had set by bumping out the visitor bed room. However once more, I simply couldn’t see one other manner. So these are the issues that had been protecting me from transferring ahead and sending the information to the architect. I didn’t need to pay him for drawing up plans if I used to be nonetheless uncertain in regards to the plan. I didn’t need to add to the associated fee by paying him now for one thing I’m uncertain about, solely to vary my thoughts at a later date after which need to have him draw up extra plans that may value extra money.
So I’ve been sitting on this for some time now (since November or December), simply hoping {that a} answer would current itself. And I believe that lastly occurred this final weekend.
As y’all know, I’ve been speaking quite a bit about how the doorways to the hallway lavatory will ultimately be closed up and I’ll have a stable wall there within the bed room lobby. After which the entry to that loo can be moved to the brand new hallway as soon as we construct the addition.

However each time I’d go into that loo, I’d suppose to myself how completely located that room is for the much-needed storage room I’ve been wanting for Matt’s gadgets. It’s the right measurement for it. It’s the right location proper there contained in the bed room suite. It already has doorways on it that speak in confidence to the scale wanted to maneuver these gadgets out and in very simply. It’s simply good.
The issue with that plan is apparent, although. If I preserve that room accessible to the bed room suite and switch it right into a storage closet, which means now we have no visitor lavatory. And I’ve been down this street earlier than, making an attempt to suit a toilet into the addition. I couldn’t match two bedrooms, a front room, and a toilet right into a 16-foot addition. The house simply isn’t there for all of that.
However it had been some time since I actually studied that flooring plan, so this final weekend, I made a decision to check out it with contemporary eyes and a transparent head to see if there was any manner so as to add a toilet to that addition whereas protecting it to 16 toes. And what struck me instantly was the query, “Why am I making an attempt so as to add two bedrooms (one in all which might be used as a house gymnasium) to the addition? Do we actually want two bedrooms?”
So I acquired actually trustworthy with myself. Why am I making an attempt so as to add two bedrooms? Why do I would like a visitor bed room that can sit there, utterly unused, only for the aim of getting a visitor bed room? I can’t even bear in mind the final time we would have liked a visitor bed room. Matt’s dad doesn’t journey anymore, and he’s the one visitor we’ve ever had. And if the very uncommon event did come up once we wanted to accommodate a visitor in a single day, my studio has loads of room to arrange a mattress. So having a devoted visitor bed room looks as if an entire waste of house (and cash) to me.
The one motive I used to be including a second bed room within the addition is as a result of in my thoughts, I’m nonetheless caught on the concept I would like to show this home again right into a three-bedroom home. Why? For future homeowners. My goodness, how typically have I preached that individuals must make their houses their very own with out interested by what some potential future homeowners might want? And but, I saved going again to that. I’m not even practising what I preach.
So after giving it a whole lot of thought, I spotted that the one individual I need to be sure now we have room for is my mother. My mother is 86 years outdated. She is in phenomenal well being and lives by herself within the house I grew up in. She’s quite a bit like her personal mom, who lived by herself till she was 99. My grandmother was in wonderful well being at that age. She was nonetheless driving, nonetheless residing alone in her house in east Texas, nonetheless caring for her home by herself, nonetheless caring for her property, and thriving. However she had made an settlement along with her daughters (my mother and my aunt) that when she turned 100, she would promote her home and transfer to Waco. So when she turned 100, she offered her home, moved to Waco, and moved right into a retirement house the place she lived in her personal condo. She lived to be 108 years outdated, and she or he did simply high-quality residing by herself till about these final two years of her life.
My mother appears to be on that very same monitor. She’s 86 years outdated and thriving. When she tells individuals her age, there’s at all times an audible gasp. Folks suppose they misheard her, and there’s no potential manner she could possibly be 86 years outdated. She’s in higher well being than most individuals 20 years her junior. And he or she loves residing by herself in her own residence.
So whereas I don’t see her needing to come back reside with us anytime within the close to future, I simply have it in my thoughts that if she ever needs or wants to reside some other place, she gained’t go to a retirement house. She’ll come reside with us. She is actually the one individual I need to be certain now we have room prepared and out there for if she ever needs or wants to reside someplace aside from her own residence. However once more, as she appears to be on the identical monitor as her personal mom, we’re that being over a decade away.
With that objective in thoughts of constructing certain now we have house for my mother, I gave our flooring plan one other look. And what I made a decision is that I can get rid of the wasted house of an precise visitor bed room that can sit there unused. I do need one bed room within the addition as a result of I desire a room that we are able to use as a house gymnasium for now, however that room can simply be transformed right into a bed room if we ever have want of that. And eliminating that second bed room leaves loads of room for a visitor lavatory. A 16-foot addition is loads of room for one bed room with a big closet, one lavatory, and a household room. And if the day comes that we’d like the house gymnasium as a bed room, we are able to simply shut up the door between our lavatory and that bed room.
So with all of that in thoughts, that is what I’m now planning. And all of it matches throughout the 16-foot restrict that I needed to maintain.

I really feel so peaceable about this plan. I’m going to take a seat with it a pair extra weeks and ensure I don’t see any issues with it, however I can nearly assure that that is the plan I’ll be sending to the architect. It provides us every thing we’d like, together with that much-needed space for storing for Matt’s gadgets.